Paramahansa Sadhvi Tridevi MAA nos habla acerca de cómo los padres pueden manejarse ante un hijo adolescente, cuando el mismo está comenzando a descubrir su identidad sexual y a caminar por sí solo en la sociedad, enfocando en la importancia de una actitud SIN JUICIO, y acompañarlo a identificarse como un SER HUMANO
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YOU MUST RESPECT ALL DIFFERENCES from an early age: Sexual identity and childhood and adolescence.
So this is like this my love, are we in a society where these issues are okay? They are… they are more open, so how to handle it is: accompanying him to identify himself as a human being and that he has a… a genetic identity that is XX or XXY is that okay? And that also gives him a hormonal identity and it will give him physical characteristics to which he will present himself and see himself from the outside in and from the inside out, so he will relate to people with whom he feels emotional affinity, mental and physical. That is the most important thing, if the goal is to procreate, at some point in life, there are many ways today, and if the goal is to be accompanied as a couple and start a family, there are also many ways today, but the most important thing is to teach them to respect differences, whatever the sexual choice is, the most important thing is that they learn to respect differences and above all to crawl themselves and not go or handle themselves according to what the social nucleus imposes it, but rather that they learn to value what they really feel with which they identify internally and that they can respect themself and manifest themself from that place, okay?... It has to be very clear, very sincere, not to build taboos about that, because society today beyond the fact that one part has a lot of discrimination, the other part is like it is very open to all that, it seems to me that all differences must be respected, but there is no need to stimulate, there is no that hypersexualized children, adolescents because by itself there is already a hormonal situation that occurs at a certain age of the human and in each one sooner or later, depending on their genetics... and their culture as well and the climate where they are, so keep in mind that this is The discovery, the self-discovery, is going to occur naturally, and the parents and the family have to be there to guide them, and that is up to the parents, too well?... And that the adults close to them respect their possibilities.
In general, when a child comes and asks something, if he feels a judgment, he will withdraw, if he feels that he has space to ask and an answer comes that is true, he will always feel comfortable going to the family nucleus. that he has doubts about his identity about his sexuality, about where and how to walk in society, so if there is a prejudice, he will withdraw and seek help outside the home, otherwise, if he feels welcomed He will understand that he can count on his family nucleus beyond the form and he will go to this nucleus when he feels confused by the system. So it is very important that the family does not induce, but also does not judge when he manifests himself.