To begin with, who accompanies a boy or a girl or a creature when they begin to discover their sexuality is only the parents, okay? Parents are the only ones who can accompany them in this, NO other adult outside of the creature's guardian can accompany the creature in this, it doesn't fit, anything out of place can confuse the creature, okay?
That, on the other hand, is to guide him to preserve himself intimately, without exposing what is happening to him from a public place, that his privacy be respected and the other thing that you have in front of you, then is to guide the creature, explain him "what parts are not to be touched", and "if you feel some kind of sensation in that body part, that is your privacy, you cannot open that to the public and you cannot allow anyone to touch you"... that on the one hand, if it is a matter of self-discovery, but that is what the parents, guardians of the child, have to do, if they don't know how to do it: go to a psychologist and ask for guidance, there are many specialists in that!
At the same time, at the level of sexuality one cannot invade the mind of the creature with sexual information, ever! THAT IS LIKE A PSYCHIC, SEXUAL ABUSE. Unfortunately, many parents who have raised us from that generation had no filter in relation to sexuality and they did us psychological damage as well? Keep in mind, because it is a matter of respect and modesty, not some repression, because the child when he is ready to know some information: HE IS GOING TO ASK YOU, DO NOT TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT SEXUALITY IF HE DOES NOT ASK YOU, and when he asks you, understand that he has already seen in some way or perceived in his own body that information, he already comes with something experienced, or known or heard or seen, so he comes to prove: 1) if you are going to lie to him (I'm talking to the parents ah!) - yes you will lie to him, 2) if you tell him the truth: he will trust you and will always come to you to ask questions. If you act scandalously and modestly about the subject, keep in mind that he is asking you, if he asks, does he trust you, does he understand? Then he needs you to tell him the truth, but a truth appropriate to this mind. There are ways of drawing things to explain a creature, do you understand my love?
But let it be clear that this is in charge of the minor's guardians, for many reasons, one in the first place is always due to a hormonal and self-discovery issue, that the child is left with an energy, a vibration in his erogenous zones, it is natural, so when the parents perceive that there is an erogenization and that the baby is more activated in that area, it is to call him and not talk about the specific topic, but to guide him like "my love, the area that is covered with panties, NOBODY CAN TOUCH YOU, in the area covered with your underwear, no one can touch you, it can ONLY be touched when bathing, by mom or dad, if necessary, even at that stage it is important that parents already teach the children to sanitize themselves so that they do not have to stimulate it, even without intention, is that understood?
It's something intimate, it's personal, you don't have to invade the creature in that sense, but YES, you have to check its intimate part from time to time, just to see if it didn't fall silent and didn't get hurt, if it's cleaning itself properly, if there is no wound, if there is no type of "rare" injury, or pasty, is that understood? or some infection, one has to be careful but it's not something you have to do every day and all the time, it's a mental illness thing, see? I explained? So it is something that one has to be modest and be careful about.